A lady who’s presently in a long distance relationship with her boyfriend has narrated her experience, and how it can make someone “mental”.
Story To Learn From ?
Sharing her story, she noted that she lives in Port Harcourt, while her boyfriend is presently in an airforce school in Kaduna.
“One night I was feeling kinda sick and too tired to chat so I went to bed early I told my boyfriend, baby goodnight, sleep early, he said he would.
Fast forward to 5am I saw his last seen 3:57am. and he updated his status at intervals.
I immediately checked his business WhatsApp 10:23pm.
Won’t really say he was working so what was he doing online. I went ahead to check his last seen on freefire (video game) it was two days ago. I kept trying to figure out what he was up to the whole night, patiently waited till night then I popped the question; “Shebi you said you’d sleep early, being online is no fun without me, what where you doing last night?”
Bros was thinking I was joking with him and he was sending me stickers. I chatted his roommate up, trying to cover up he said both of them slept early they had a long day. Immediately I assumed something fishy was up. I started laying my facts down to baby “I checked your business line, and game(don’t game but I have the freefire game just to spy in him and know if he is actually gaming when he says so) but you were not there you told me you were done with your new course”.
Baba started “have I given you a reason to doubt me” trust your girl na I wasn’t buying. Bros leave that thing and tell me who you were chatting last night. We had a big argument. Guys are evil they know exactly how to maneuver things I felt bad but me too na drama queen.
I said so what you where doin last night is worth all this fighting perhaps this relationship is not important to you, just tell me. Las Las he was gaming with his brother’s account to boost it. I asked for prove he sent screenshots and and checked the account last seen was right around the time he slept.
He wasn’t quite happy with me so I had his friends arrange a nice gift for him and sent a cute email. Long distance relationships can make you mental. but we are not giving up yet.
I stay in Ph and he is presently in an airforce school in Kaduna. Things are bound to get testy so please he must prove and continue to prove, me too go prove.”